But it gets so cold here.

You warm up the coast with your smile; it's the most genuine thing that I have ever seen.

Take me with you.

Knowing yourself all too well.

Do you ever get that feeling that you know exactly how to bring yourself down, and you know exactly how to make yourself feel like nothing in this world or the next could pick you right back up again?

When anybody is going through some bad times the thing we want to do the most is too take their pain away and show them that they are loved and not alone.  But when we are feeling in that very pit ourselves and somebody asks "What can I do to help you?" it's hard to come up with anything that willl lift you up except for someone to lie there and accept you as you are and tell you that they are willing to listen to you rattle on about the same things that you always do.  So you rattle on and as much as you feel repetitive and sad, it does help - the acceptance helps.

1. You make things easier, and thank you for keeping my secret. ;)
2. Words cannot express my feelings for you, and sometimes I am not aware of them myself.  I wish I could tell you about all of this.  I wish I could put it all on you, but I am pretty sure it will only be to your detriment.  And to be honest I love you far too much for that to happen.
3. You supported me when I expected you to the least.  And I needed that.
4. You are the most loving person I have ever known.  I am scared nobody else will love me as much as you do.
5. I really hope you found happiness, I am sorry we had to go through what we went through - but I do think it was very important for both of us.

You see I've got this disease that I just can't shake.

When are all these red lights going to turn green?
When will I progress and lift my feet under the sinking sand?

And it's not much.

But it's a step in the right direction.

And you suddenly realise that you're by yourself,
but you're not alone.

But I'm a little different now.

I've been away for a few days there to Galway.  And although it was beautiful and relaxing I sort of escaped the idea that I'd have to return and do these shifts until 11pm where I'll watch the Lagan for an hour and instagram whilst trying to hup myself up on the blue painted box.

Life goes on as it always does and I almost forgot I'm not in control of that.  From now on I'm going to make lists.  And do these things, because even if nothing comes from these bullet points at least I'll have a tidy room and photographs that fully stick to my wall.

"You know you make me wanna try harder."

IOrdinary people.

The way I see it, there a million reasons to feel alone.  And living in the modern age where communication is so little through face-to-face contact it's getting easier to get swallowed up.

When your friends are far, and your family are fleeing it's pretty difficult to not throw the head up and accept your uttermost destiny may be sitting in your parents house eating melted chocolate and watching re-runs of the Simpson's.  When your job is shit, and there are more health problems cropping up everyday, you can get fed up using them as an excuse it can take everything not to just lose both hope and inspiration.

I think the key to not getting swallowed up is to have a focus.  Whether it's a solid goal like getting your degree, or a self-goal like surviving this weeks workload.  Without these it's easy to get engulfed and to not really see a way out.  So easy to get so snowed under in life's displays of what's wrong with your life - and what's wrong with you.

Regrettably I have not been a positive person as of late.  And although I have managed to survive to this point I'm not really proud of how I've got here.  But I am proud that I did get here.  It's going to take a hell of a lot of work in absolutely every area of my life.  But it's life - you can't let it's problems overshadow you.  You can't let the thought of other people overshadow you.

If you try and make yourself better by putting trying to put yourself above others you will not win.  I have definitely learned that this week.  By celebrating others you can learn to appreciate yourself.  Alternatively you can look on facebook and think how much prettier everybody else is, people who you don't have friended.  If we did this constantly, I can guarantee that we would not accomplish any happiness.

But it will get you to a cosy bit of your bed that you never want to leave.
And it will assure you that no matter what you do or achieve, it will never be enough

Oh life, and call centres.

Times goes by, no change.

Waiting for a break, emailed some places to do voluntary work.
Hoping something pulls through.

Positivity from now on.
Happy pills and happy faces.